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VELCRO OF LIFE
 
1987 a
Covid Born
Messiah’s Velcro.



A clinging vine our lost traumatised civilisation of humanity hooks itself 

In trophy scoring searches for continuing connection 

Re-connection to purity of solar rays.
Too many lost their way.

More of this


Locked in by implicit consciousness these Covid delivered energetic fragments 

Rise from life’s journey to awareness.

Stuck pieces appear revealing unresolved distorted moments,

Cellular eroding beauty to life itself.

Mandated return to this wilderness opportunity is offered to heal or fragment.

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Life our Spiritual identity resides in body from beyond conception.

Spirit is forever open, 

Readily holds, receives, accept, shares love.


Chakras

Spirit & Love are One

Love with light does not discriminate nor judge 

All are granted free will of love as a birth right.


Spiritual divinity of all life is natural.

Life is the I am.

Body lives & dies by such attachment.

Attachment is materialistically over exposure.

Bar Code zombies


Here the species of mankind HIM self mutated 

Volcanic Ego erupted  

With accumulated disability.

Individual Separation occurred.

Captured by ever observant unconscious implicity.

Broken Home 2

Purity of Spirit divided by cellular mutation 

Body,  Mind,  Spirit.
SO
Separated

Such accumulated mutation manifests as disease.


Active Black Hole Egg

As with torn unhooked Velcro

Spirit departs on a breath.

Shoes and crumpled pants of man remain

His body goes back to ash from whence we came.


Leunig baby

Spirit shines seeded in new form.

Natural reconnection for rebirth.



Love is this Life.

Fertilisation


Closing Message about
SELF ESTEEM
From SADHGURU
.

Walk forward
Ever thankful for your wonder filled journey.
 
FETAL ALCOHOL SPECTRUM DISORDER

 

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ALCOHOL HEALTH WARNINGS + PREGNANCY

KEY FINDINGS
The majority (70%) of Australians support an effective health warning on all alcohol products and would take action on the issue.
Almost a quarter (23%) of Australians are not aware that drinking alcohol when pregnant is harmful to an unborn baby.

» People aged 25-34 years old are the least aware, with 35% unable to correctly identify zero alcohol as the only safe amount.
Awareness of the specific health conditions caused by alcohol use during pregnancy is low. Almost one third (30%) of Australians are unaware alcohol can cause Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) and almost one half (46%) of Australians are unaware of the risk of stillbirth.

  • »  People aged 25-34 years old are the least aware that FASD is associated with alcohol use during pregnancy (39% unaware), closely followed by 18-24 year-olds (35% unaware).

  • »  Men are less aware than women of health conditions associated with alcohol use during pregnancy, particularly for FASD, with 63% men aware and 77% women aware.
Less than one third (31%) of Australians recall seeing the current voluntary alcohol industry label on alcohol products.




INTRODUCTION

Alcohol is a teratogen, an agent that can impact the development of an embryo or fetus.
Alcohol use during pregnancy can result in damage to the brain and other organs of the unborn baby, as well as low birth weight, failure to thrive, stillbirth and miscarriage.

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) is the term used to describe a range of lifelong physical and/or neurodevelopmental impairments caused by prenatal exposure to alcohol. FASD is a lifelong disability. Individuals with FASD will experience some degree of challenges in their daily living, and need support with motor skills, physical health, learning, memory, attention, communication, emotional regulation, and social skills to reach their full potential.
The average life expectancy of a person with diagnosed FASD is just 34 years. 
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The National Health and Medical Research Council’s (NHMRC) draft alcohol guidelines state that women who are pregnant or planning a pregnancy should not drink alcohol. 

Yet awareness of these guidelines in Australia remains low, resulting in continued alcohol use during pregnancy.
As 2016 results from the National Drug Strategy Household Survey show, an estimated 49 per cent of pregnant women drank alcohol before knowing they were pregnant, and 25 per cent continued to drink after knowledge of their pregnancy.

For women actively trying to conceive, 2020 Australian research showed 85 per cent recently consumed alcohol and 56 per cent had consumed more than 4 standard drinks on one occasion.

Qualitative research with Australian women indicates there is often confusion about whether alcohol should be avoided during pregnancy, and drinking during pregnancy is sometimes encouraged through beliefs that it is safe to have an occasional drink.

This polling report highlights the current low awareness of the health risks of alcohol during pregnancy. People in the most common age bracket for having children, 25-34 year-olds, had the lowest level of awareness of the danger of alcohol during pregnancy. Men were consistently less aware than women, which is concerning as Australian research indicates 75 per cent of pregnant women who drink usually drink with their partner, and that male partners initiate a drinking occasion nearly 40 per cent of the time.
 


FINDINGS

AUSTRALIANS DEMAND ACTION ON HEALTH WARNINGS


FARE polled Australians as to their support and willingness to take action on health warnings about the risk of drinking alcohol during pregnancy.
Respondents could view the proposed new warning from Food Standards Australia New Zealand* and were told the intention was for this to replace the current label and make it mandatory.
The majority (70%) of Australians said they support this change and would be willing to take action on the issue.


  When analysing responses by gender and age, there are significant differences.
Those aged 25-34 years were the least aware (35% unaware), followed by those aged 35-49 years (28% unaware)
This is also the group most likely to be having children, with 31.4 being the median age for Mothers in Australia in 2018 and 33.5 for fathers.
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Men are more likely (29%) to be unaware than women (17%) that no alcohol should be drunk while pregnant.

Analysis by each Australian state and territory was also conducted, using representative samples. This lack of awareness is particularly high in Victoria (26%), Queensland (25%)  
New South Wales (24%).




TOO MANY AUSTRALIANS
ARE UNAWARE
OF THE RISKS OF DRINKING ALCOHOL
WHEN PREGNANT.


When asked to identify the health conditions associated with alcohol use during pregnancy, Australians’ level of awareness is low.
Almost one third (30%) of Australians are unaware that drinking alcohol during pregnancy can cause FASD.


Australians’ awareness that alcohol use during pregnancy can cause a failure to thrive for a newborn (lack of normal weight gain) is low at 53 per cent.
Similarly, awareness that stillbirth is a potential consequence of drinking during pregnancy is only 54 per cent.


Analysis by gender indicates significant differences in awareness.
Men are less aware than women of health conditions associated with alcohol use during pregnancy, particularly FASD (63% male awareness, 77% females).




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Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders
Other names Foetal alcohol spectrum disorders
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Baby with fetal alcohol syndrome, showing some of the characteristic facial features
Specialty Psychiatrypediatricstoxicology
Symptoms Abnormal appearance, short height, low body weight, small head size, poor coordination, behavior problems, learning problems[1][2]
Complications BabiesMiscarriagestillbirth 
AdultsAlcohol use disordersubstance use disorder
Duration Long term[1][3]
Types Fetal alcohol syndrome, Partial fetal alcohol syndrome, Alcohol-related neurodevelopmental disorder, Static Encephalopathy, Alcohol-related birth defects[1]
Causes Drinking alcohol during pregnancy[1]
Diagnostic method Based on symptoms[1]
Prevention Avoiding drinking alcohol during pregnancy[4]
Treatment Parent-child interaction therapy, efforts to modify child behavior, possibly medications[5]
Prognosis Varies depending on the victim. Life expectancy can range from 31 to 37. Average death age is 34.[6]
Frequency 1 in 20[7]
Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASDs) are a group of conditions that can occur in a person whose mother drank alcohol during pregnancy. Symptoms can include an abnormal appearance, short height, low body weight, small head size, poor coordination, behavioural problems, learning difficulties and problems with hearing or sight. 
Those affected are more likely to have trouble in school, legal problems, participate in high-risk activities and have problems with alcohol or other drugs
The most severe form of the condition is known as fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS). 
Other types include Partial Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (pFAS), 
Alcohol-Related Neurodevelopmental Disorder (ARND), 
Static Encephalopathy
Alcohol-Related Birth Defects (ARBD), and 
NeurobehavioralDisorder Associated With Prenatal Alcohol Exposure (ND-PAE). 
Some accept only FAS as a diagnosis, seeing the evidence as inconclusive with respect to other types.
Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders are caused by a mother drinking alcohol during pregnancy. 
Surveys from the United States found that about 10% of pregnant women drank alcohol in the past month, and 20% to 30% drank at some point during the pregnancy.[ 
About 3.6% of pregnant American women are alcoholics. 
The risk of FASD depends on the amount consumed and the frequency of consumption as well as at what point in pregnancy the alcohol was consumed. Other risk factors include older age of the mothersmoking, and poor diet. There is no known safe amount or time to drink alcohol during pregnancy. While drinking small amounts does not cause abnormalities in the face, it may cause behavioral issues. 
Alcohol crosses the blood–brain barrier and both directly and indirectly affects a developing fetus. 
Diagnosis is based on the signs and symptoms in the person.
Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders are preventable by avoiding alcohol.

For this reason, medical authorities recommend no alcohol during pregnancy or while trying to become pregnant. 
While the condition is permanent, treatment can improve outcomes.
Interventions may include parent–child interaction therapy, efforts to modify child behavior, and possibly medications.
FASD is estimated to affect between 1% and 5% of people in the United States and Western Europe. 
FAS is believed to occur in between 0.2 and 9 per 1,000 live births in the United States. 
In South Africa, some populations have rates as high as 9%. 

The negative effects of alcohol during pregnancy have been described since ancient times. 
The lifetime cost per child with FAS in the US was $2,000,000 in 2002. 
The term 'fetal alcohol syndrome' was first used in 1973.



AUSTRALIA
We have adopted and accepted a massive alcohol problem.
It is critical that this form of
AVOIDANT SOCIAL ENTERTAINING BEHAVIOUR
be
CALLED * NAMED *  IMMEDIATELY ADDRESSED
FOR
the
HABITUAL

SOCIAL ALCOHOLIC ADDICTION

THAT IT IS


Further Detailed Information and Support

 
VAGINA MONOLOGUE & PREDATORS.
BRAVE COUTRAGEOUS WOMEN

SPEAKING OUT

DRIVING HEALING

TO AWAKEN and EFFECT

REALISTIC CULTURAL CHANGE.

Clementine, Sir Winston Churchill's  wife, was talking to a street sweeper for a while.
"What did you talk about for so long?" asked Sir Winston.

She smiled, "Many years ago he was madly in love with me."
Churchill smiled ironically,
"So you could have been the wife of a street sweeper today. "

′′Oh no, my love ", Clementine replied,
"If I had married him, he would have been the Prime Minister today.!!!


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  Princess Diana

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"HEAR ME NOW", 
Watch & Listen  to Grace Tame 
Australian of the Year 2021
.

                    Grace Tame speaks about the disgusting Patriarchial Law which formerly prevented sexually abused women having the right to speak for themselves in Tasmania. 

Now continuing her mission determined to be effective in being heard, and understood  to assist all women and all aspects of society to awaken to a more respectful, caring society, 
Through conversations, support, belief and education.                     
       

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 Brittany Higgins










                       
Christine Holgate
             


 

All five of these featured courageous women and most women generally 
Have experienced & continue to be
Treated in the most disgusting and unjust manner by

"Those who supposedly were /are the doyen and leaders of society".

Then former Deputy Prime Minister & Minister for Foreign Affairs
Julie Bishop
Confirms the existence of Canberra's Swinging Dicks Club
Which tried unsuccessfully to destroy her career.
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PASTORS' STORY
There is a mysterious thing
That existed before Heaven  and Earth,
Silent and empty,
Alone and unchanging,
Ceaselessly turning,
It is the Mother of All things.

If I must, I’ll call it “Great.”
Greatness entails transcendence.
Transcendence entails going beyond.
Going beyond entails return to the beginning.

Tao Te Ching XXV


THE STORY OF THE PASTOR

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Kahlil Gibran.
The story is about a religious leader in a town that everyone in  the town looked up to for spiritual guidance.
We will call the leader Pastor.
Basically it can be almost any denomination.

The pastor was an authority on sin, heaven, hell and all the rest and he taught the people all of these things and preached salvation.
 The pastor waged a consistent war against Satan.

One evening the pastor was out walking and he heard an anguished cry.
He looked and saw a battered man lying in the gutter.
His clothes were ripped and he was covered in blood. 



The man was crying,
"Save me, have mercy on me, please help me, I am dying".


The pastor did not want to get involved.
He thought that the man was probably drunk or on drugs or maybe he was a criminal and was in a fight with other criminals.
His first reaction was to keep going and not get involved.


As he kept walking, nervously looking over his shoulder the wounded man yelled.
"Please don’t leave me. I am dying".
The pastor then thought that possibly the man was insane or something.
He didn’t know what to do.


He kept walking but then the man called out.
"Please come close to me. You and I have been friends for a long time. Don’t you recognize me" ?.
"You pastor are the Good Shepherd, I am not a criminal, I am not insane.
Please you know me, come over to me and I will tell you who I am".


The pastor leaned down and said, "What do you mean, who I am. I don’t know you.
Who are you. ?


And the man struggled to talk through a bloody mouth.
"Oh! you know me.
"You’ve seen me a thousand times and you talk about me every day".
"I'm dearer to you then your own life". 
 

The pastor said, "Your also a liar. Your dying.
You better start telling the truth.
"I don’t know you. I've never seen your lying face before". 


The wounded man moved slowly, looked squarely into the pastors eyes and suddenly a small smile appeared on his bloody lips. 
In a deep smooth voice he then said.
"I am Satan".


The pastor recoiled  and screamed at the distorted face in the gutter,
"God has shown me your hellish image and justly caused me to hate you".


"Cursed be you forevermore,
The mangled lamb must be destroyed by the shepherd lest he will infect the other lambs".


Satan answered.
"Be not in haste pastor. Come and close my wounds quickly before life departs from my body". 


The pastor responded.
"These hands which offer a daily sacrifice to God. Shall not touch a body made from the secretions of hell. You must die accursed by the ages, for you are the enemy of all humanity and it is your purpose to destroy all virtue".


Satan painfully raised himself on one elbow.
"You don’t know what your saying, You don’t know what crime you are committing against yourself".


"Today I was walking alone, bothering no one when a band of angels descended to attack me and severely injured me. I would have been able to drive them off if it had not been for one who had a blazing sword with two sharp edges. I simply had no power against the brilliant sword".

Satan gasped and paused for a moment in obvious pain.
"The armed angel , I believe his name was Michael was an expert gladiator".
"Had I not fallen to the ground and pretended to be dead he would have torn me to pieces".


The pastor looked upward and said,
"Blessed be Michaels name who has saved humanity from this vicious enemy".


Satan painfully looked up at the pastor and said.
"You are blessing Michael who never has come to your rescue. You are cursing me in my hour of defeat, even though I was and still am the source of your tranquility and happiness".


 

"You deny me your blessing and extend not your kindness,
But you live and prosper in the shadow of my being".


"You have adopted for my existence an excuse and weapon for your career, and you employ my name in justification for your deeds.
Has not my past caused you to be in need of my present and my future"? 


"What is it pastor that you wish my death".
"Have you reached your goal in amassing wealth"?
"Have you found it impossible to extract more gold and silver
From your followers using my kingdom as a threat" ?


"Pastor, do you realize that you will starve to death if I die"?
"What would you do tomorrow if you allowed me to die today" ?
"What vocation would you pursue if my name disappeared"?


"For decades you have been roaming these villages and warning people against falling into my hands" . "They have paid for your advice with their dollars and the products of their land". 

"What would they buy from you tomorrow if they discovered that their wicked enemy no longer exists"? "Your occupation would die with me, for the people would be safe  from sin". 

"As a clergyman surely you realize that my existence alone has created my enemy the church".
"You and I together are the conflict which removes gold and silver from the faithful pockets and deposits it into the pouch of the preacher and the missionary".


"How can you permit me to die here when you know it will surely cause you to lose your prestige, your church, your home and your livelihood"?

"I am the Father and Mother of sin and if sin were to vanish the fighters of sin would vanish with it along with their families and structures".

And Satan stretched his arms and bent his head forward and gasped deeply. His face turned to grey. Then he fixed his glittering eyes upon the pastors face and said in a faltering voice.
"I am tired and weak. I did wrong by using my waning strength to speak on things you already know".


"Now you may do as you please".
"You may carry me to your home and treat my wounds or leave me in this place to die".


The pastor quivered and rubbed his hands and replied.
"I know now what I had not known an hour ago. Forgive my ignorance".
"I know that your existence in this world creates temptation and temptation is a measurement by which God adjudges the value of human souls".


The pastor continued.

"Satan, you must live for if you die and the people know it,  their fear of hell will vanish and they will cease worshipping for nothing would be sin".
"You must live for in your life is the salvation of humanity from vice and sin".


Satan laughed and replied.
"What an intelligent person you are pastor".
"What wonderful knowledge you posses in theological facts".
"You have found through the power of your knowledge a purpose for my existence which I had never understood and now we realize our need for each other".


"Come close to me my brother, darkness is submerging the plains, and half of my blood has escaped upon the sand of this valley and nothing remains of me but the remnants of a broken body which death shall soon buy unless you render aid".

The pastor then lifted Satan upon his back and walked toward his home

In the midst of those valleys, engulfed with silence and embellished with the veil of darkness, the pastor walked toward the village with his back bent under his heavy burden.
His black raiment and long beard were spattered with blood streaming from above him but he struggled forward, his lips moving in fervent prayer for the life of the dying Satan.


RELIGION IS TOTALLY DEPENDANT ON SATAN

So there is the deep truth. The very normal aspect of positive and negative we have turned into a mythological Satan. A power that does not exist we have made into existence and the church and the Pastors must pray that Satan continues for if Satan was to disappear they too would disappear at least until they came up with another creation to cause guilt and fear. 
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Today the great palaces of religion totally depend on Satan for their existence and their wealth.
This as I said earlier is from the treasure of Kahlil Gibran.

 


 
EMOTIONAL SUPPRESSION
An edited extract from Julia Gillard's
John Curtin prime ministerial library's anniversary lecture. 



 
Silent struggle with mental illness:

John Curtin
Australian prime minister John Curtin in 1944, at the BBC in London.

 The more we return to John Curtin’s life, the greater his contribution appears, not just as a wartime leader and social reformer, but now – at last publicly and in a very modern way – as a disruptor, a mental health militant, if you will, even if he was unwilling to share that aspect of his personal story while he lived.
Curtin’s mental health journey resonates today with the work of beyondblue, particularly when it comes to men’s mental health. 

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IDOLATORY BEHAVIOUR
IMG 0177 Our society has been so divided by the practice and unquestionable promotion
of idolatory behaviour in todays world. 
Most people have heard the 'all too easy' expression about needing to 
Love thy self.

This is all well and good, until we realise that unless we
actually possess,
mortgage free,
the self preserving esteem of
SELF LOVE.
Yes, until we actually accept & return to possess self love we are incapable of giving love to any one.

Obviously,
One cannot give that which
One does not possess.





Emotional awareness to self idolatory behaviour has forever been within nature and seems to be adopted and promoted by all aspects of life where material and social benefits can be achieved through attachment to idolisation of material wares and human endeavours.
Self possessed by,
"Things & stuff".

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THE SPELL OF THE SENSUOUS
Australia from space

Following here is a review to another amazing piece of literature which further acknowledges the disconnection with our move away from our spiritual connection to our life source as story tellers of time progressively lost contact with language of the universal spirit of life as they become mind driven and separated from the inner being arguing over the source of the Chicken & the Egg. 

We say practice Counselling because these days we find that each and every client teaches us more about the vagaries, expanding evolutionionary development and interrelated Universal connections to our air borne existence as mini micro human cells in the unlimited matrix of life. 

Yes in reality we most definitely have come quite a way from our ancestors when we start to consider the wisdom of those whose initial language development had an absolute & immediate connection to the life of our universal and earthly survival. 

Our work as Counsellors is about reconnecting people to the children they were born to be before they were cognitively led away to the never wilderness and left forever longing.
Left longing forever reaching out seeking love, wealth, material possessions, big homes, fast cars, social status, multiple partners.

Forever forgetting to see and appreciate the immediate surrounding air in which their body seeks and needs to live.

Todays society is comparable life of fish when we recognise that :
"The last thing fish discovers is water".
Or birds discover the wind beneath their wings.

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MASLOW'S HIERARCHY OF ESSENTIAL NEEDS
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

by Saul McLeod published 2007, updated 2014

Maslow wanted to understand what motivates people. He believed that people possess a set of motivation systems unrelated to rewards or unconscious desires.
Maslow (1943) stated that people are motivated to achieve certain needs. When one need is fulfilled a person seeks to fulfil the next one, and so on.
The earliest and most widespread version of Maslow's (1943, 1954) hierarchy of needs includes five motivational needs, often depicted as hierarchical levels within a pyramid.

Maslow's hierarchy of needs five stage pyramid.

This five stage model can be divided into basic (or deficiency) needs (e.g. physiological, safety, love, and esteem)
And growth needs (self-actualization).

The deficiency, or basic needs are said to motivate people when they are unmet.
Also, the need to fulfil such needs will become stronger the longer the duration they are denied.
For example, the longer a person goes without food the more hungry they will become.

One must satisfy lower level basic needs before progressing on to meet higher level growth needs.
Once these needs have been reasonably satisfied, one may be able to reach the highest level called self-actualization.

Maslow Spirit 
    1) Physiological:hunger, thirst, bodily comforts, etc.;
    2) Safety/security: out of danger;
    3) Belongingness and Love: affiliate with others, be accepted; and
  4) Esteem: to achieve, be competent, gain approval and recognition.

    Maslow later differentiated the growth need of self-actualization.
Specifically identifying two of the first growth needs as part of the more generallevel of self-actualization (Maslow & Lowery, 1998)
Second one beyond the general level that focused on growth beyond that oriented towards self (Maslow, 1971).
They are:
   
      5) Cognitive: to know, to understand, and explore;
      6) Aesthetic: symmetry, order, and beauty;



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AWAKENING OF MAN WITHIN BOYS

OUR BRIDE WITHIN



St Michael  DianaSeed is born with germ of life 
Stamen Ovum all the same
Mother nature rules this game
Girl child born, maiden soon
Grows with nature menses to moon
Virgin, Lover Mother, Crone.
Life of Mother, nature known.

Boy born of Father's stone
Becomes rock, all alone
Within this rock Eros laid
Egg of Spirit his Inner bride.

This egg is man's seed of life

Light of moon's love may germinate his seed

Revealing carnal lust,
Ego,
Fear, anger control, greed.

Once AWAKE he is reborn
His new LIFE begins,
As Michael slays 
So EROS wins.


Eros the Rose 

The Goddes of love


Boys and Men Listen here to 
The Art of Love

If you want to become a brand new man.

Too many men unwittingly remain locked behind unconscious denial & ignorance of their true self.
Living their life entirely devoid of any real or genuine capacity to LOVE
Love Chemistry

 
BEING ENOUGH.... JUST AS YOU ARE.

Being Single;


Korro  Bella"Yes", she said. "I am happy."

However, directed by my own pre-conditioned, social expectations and ignorance I replied.

"But wouldn't you like to be in a relationship"?

She waited, took her time considering her reply,
then she gently prized open my pre-conditioned dysfunctional socially believed attitude by confidentially replying.

"Aren't I enough as I am"?



Fortunately one never stops learning even though, 
Many lessons are,
At first rather tough to accept.

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