UNCONSCIOUS DEVELOPMENT OF ALTER-EGOS
&
PERSONAL 
 
"I"

"TIES"


In To Me See.

LIFE
Is
SPIRIT.

Life
Arrives with Conception
Life
Leaves at Death.

Time of our Life
Is a "WONDER FILLED" game.
So Playing the game of Life
Is a
"WONDER FULL"  
Game to play.
CRM

By now you would have heard; 
"Give me a boy till the age of 7 and I will cut you the man".

How can this be?

It begins at conception because as life alert,
Cognitive active species we are
Immediately and directly. 
Influenced by and adapt to the environment in which we are conceived & raised.
OUR
Life Born Intuition
The== I AM ==In Us
Senses 

ALL
Joy & Sorrow.

Born with this sensory & mental capacity to react to feelings 
Our sensory being,
Our intuition remains eternally active 
Establishing responses to the immediate environment. 
So then

Neurons that fire together
BEGIN TO
Wire Together.
FROM HERE ON
EGO 
Continues to 

MAKE 
HABITUAL 
BELIEFS.

So we begin
To
Respond accordingly due to any perceived sense of

SEPARATION 
Or
Lack of 
ATTENTION

Studies show
identical connection of
Emotional Pain
TO
Actual Physical Pain.
Hence 
"LOVE HURTS"

Reason stands therefore that when pure innocent children are raised in a shaming, condemning, suppressing,
Belittling, emotionally starved, disconnected, violent, aggressive, neglective environment
From which our being naturally absorbs 
Those condemning instructions. 

All to be absorbed by the wisdom within LIFE itself
Such inborn wisdom has the necessary self protective ways
With self generated, self protective
Belief and behaviour to Survive.

Our Poly Vagal
Spiritually functional nervous system 
Communicates automatically
 Constantly mainintaining alert, guarding, 
Protecting 
LIFE 
At ONE 
With IT's 
SELF

It is Here
 Where
We Mentally Separate from 
LIFE'S GIVEN WISDOM
From our fully functional & developed body
BORN 
SELF.

Nervously sensed & reasoned cognitive behaviour 
Adopted from environmental experience
Resist or Accept
Emotional Sensations 

To Fire,
ON or OFF.

We put ourselves Down, Up,
Withdraw
or Freeze.


FIGHT,  FLIGHT,  FREEZE.

To avoid emotionally activated senses of discomfort
From incessant repetition of this traumatically forced process
Our inter connecting neurons begin to plasticise to become our

Wiring frame work,  
Our Adopted Perception of
SELF. 

Adopting and establishing our method of self existence for survival.
It is through the development & influence of this process where our
Psychology actually influences the Physiology of our body.
Influencing the physical demeanour.
"Strong or Weak".

"LOVE"
Alex Milof Burning Man Festival 2015.

From here we simply become over performers or under achievers and accept the
Altered Ego, Personality Creation,
As our over ruling instructor.

Avoidant adopted, behaviours  
Utilise learned attention seeking forms of traumatically activated behaviours to survive.

None of which are real.
NO
WE are not our EGO.
WE ARE 
LIFE.

Being scarred and shamed under such circumstances where we are told
Scorned or intimated that we are dumb,
Stupid, no good, hopeless,
Will never succeed, will never be loved, or be love able, are fat, ugly, lazy,
Irresponsible, a failure,
A waste of peoples time, bad and horrid,
The struggling wounded child simply gets to hear and believe
 Vile shaming condemnation. 

From such toxic condemnation a recurring characteristic self attitude is adopted. 
One which too often apologises, self blames,
Remaining ever wary of accepting or trusting emotionally positive
Sensate compliments. 


Of course over exuberant praise,
With gushing complimentary acknowledgement
May also produce an inflated
Alter Ego, Personality
Which may also generate insatiable and equally paralysing expectations 
Driven by endless success and achievement to avoid
Dreadful fear loaded,
Inflicted shame and embarrasment of 
FAILURE.
Oh no!
With to be expected & imagined
"Crash and burn" consequences.
From those
Recurring expectation with over reaching fear driven anticipation of failure.

"Never being enough".

As fragile, tender, adoptive minds we unconsciously  
Form this ALTER EGO to be who we are. 
Repiticous thoughts continue to mould, reinforce and confirm this self assuring
Alter- Ego, Personal Real "I" ity.
Alter Ego becomes the dominant aspect of our belief system from where  
Failure or glory maybe progressively trained, educated and reassured.

This is how it happens.
WE LOOSE SIGHT OF THE REAL SELF

LIFE

WE ARE NOT OUR QUALIFICATIONS
NOR ARE WE
OUR ENVIRONMENTALLY CLONED
EGO.

All shapes, methods and styles of exposed, adopted, INDOCTRINATION contribute to this ever,
Over ruling, self possessed cognitive delusion which permeates and create "pockets"
of confirming attitudes within individuals which then radiate into the immediate
environment of relationships, family, and widely across society.

DEVELOPMENT OF DIVISIVE ATTITUDE.
 Tolerance and intolerance

Many examples of these "pockets" are evident today where narrow Alter Ego
minded judgement exposes varying degrees of tolerance and intolerance to hard held
socially developed predjudice dominated behaviour be they based in
Devisive Racial,
Religious, Political, Material, Social, Colour or Cultural status.

None of which are real.
Yet again it is Alter Ego at work.


Well documented Religious,
Political, Racial Indoctrination and predjudices are
First and foremost examples of these often radical, divisive,
Culturally developed ideologies,
Which maybe further exemplified through out and across
International cultures
Where homophobic, ethnic, and racial beliefs have seen mass annilation
To the extremities of war with its destructive violence and perverse attitudinal
Vested, Power driven domination.

None of these beliefs are real. 
But a depraved Alter Ego at work some more.

All avenues of escapism be they  
Sport, Sex, Sewing, Swimming, Surfing, Skiing
or
Laborious   
 Slavery  
Are effective forms of Self Deluding escapism from our
REAL SELF.
Born with LIFE

TWO
Miraculously
Unite as
ONE
DNA
Merged 
Conception. 

 
TWO BECOME 
ONE.

People
Our world is amidst the greatest most threatening

SOCIAL, EMOTIONAL, 
MISS

COMMUNICATION 
PANDEMIC
Of all time.

WE MUST LISTEN
TO LIFE.
 
We must regain possession of consciousness,
Of who we were born to BE,
Regain possession of our mind
RECOVER
OUR SPIRIT OF SELF

To avoid continually propogating  
The
ILLUSION.

TO AVOID. 
Ultimately disappear into some abysmal cosmic like black hole
As did chimney sweeps of the past
Without ever learning to live with the beauty of self,
Of
PLANET EARTH,
Our family of man and all the wonderful creatures who were also born
To share this planet.

When our life begins to recognise endless troublesome,
Difficult challenges,
As experienced,
And we begin to feel more emotionally disturbing
Threatening vibes, 
Where new doubts for long term survival
Begin to plague your thoughts.
WHERE
We begin to sense and recognise the inevitability of impending 
"Psychological Sun Down"

IT IS FROM HERE.
THAT
 Intuit anticipation and Eternal
Expectation within
LIFE'S
SPIRITUAL WISDOM
Forever seeks & provides survival assurance 

For
NEW DAY & NEW WAY.
SURVIVAL.

 
It is time to seek some Counselling support to release your mind
From the unconscious imprisoning
Alter Ego
Those once self accepted personalities

YES

PERSONAL  "I"....Ties

And return to the beautiful
Free Minded
Suckling Child
You were born to be.

TIME TO RETURN

Start nurturing your self and your

Child Mind again.

HELP & SUPPORT IS HERE
AVAILABLE

To recover 
SELF
REASSURING

NATURAL DEVELOPMENTAL COUNSELLING
 

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