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Written by Rod McClure JP   
Thursday, 01 September 2016 06:50

BORN LIFE FORCE  of the INNER CHILD 
Seeking to maintain connection  

Brilliant sculpture by Alex Milov exhibited at the 2015 Nevada Burning Man Festival

Graphic art displaying our pure, innocent, sensitive and ever present
 Inner child 

Burning night
You’re free to come to your own conclusions about the piece’s meaning , but here’s what Milov wrote about the piece on the festival’s website:
“It demonstrates a conflict between a man and a woman as well as the outer and inner expression of human nature.
Their inner selves are executed in the form of transparent children, who are holding out their hands through the grating.
As it’s getting dark (night falls) the children start to shine.
This shining is a symbol of purity and sincerity that brings people together and gives a chance of making up when the dark time arrives.”


I want to love you without clutching
Appreciate you without judging

Join you without invading
Invite you without demanding
Leave you without guilt
Evaluate you without blaming
And help you without insulting
If I can have the same from you
Then we can truly meet
And enrich each other
Virginia Satir.

Her world impact could be summed up in her universal mantra:

Peace within, Peace between, Peace among.


EMOTIONALLY DISCONNECTED COUPLES. 
Sort of "Hanging in there" for the sake of the children.
Forever wanting.
Wanting to be the 
ONE.
Wanting their own way.
Wanting to be One with each other but never really able to see each other 'Eye to Eye'.

Cognitively holding onto adopted dysfunctional belliefs keeping them apart, "OUT of SORTS".

To often unconsciously denying the endless aching need for emotional and spiritual connection.
Sadly, often so defensive & guarded around their conditioned pain that they are unable to allow the ingestion of compliments & loving nourishment

Burning RightBurning Left
Hopefully Alex will not object to our reversal of his sculpture to exaggerate the emotionally unresolved cognitive depiction of many modern day disconnected relationships of convenience.

As stated by His Holiness the Dalai Lama
"People were made to be loved and things were made to be used,
"Today things are being loved and people being used".

Intuitively we know yet continue to deny & avoid the endless aching need for connection.

Further more we should also accept and appreciate that others also have boundaries which should be understood and appreciated.

So as were say.

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HELP EVER HURT NEVER
A truly wonderful motto to strive to achieve inner self awareness.

Childs advice to parents:
With this later addition to this post we include this remarkable video of a 6 year old girl expressing her heart felt desires for here parents to be friends, and if they can be friends everyone can be happy and there will be no "Monsters".

In closing here are those few wonderful words on relationship by
Internationally renown  Family therapist

Virginia Satir.

Virginia Satir


I want to love you without clutching
Appreciate you without judging

Join you without invading
Invite you without demanding
Leave you without guilt
Evaluate you without blaming
And help you without insulting
If I can have the same from you
Then we can truly meet
And enrich each other

More on this Inner child and the adult at:


Ego The False Centre
&
Anger in Relationship


Last Updated on Sunday, 08 January 2017 13:17
 

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