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As confidential Supervisors and Counsellors we understand humans are generally very quiet, often shy, contained, proud and reserved.

Noisy people often aim to avoid any sincere self contact, they are burdened by inadequacy self believing attitudes of shame & embarrassment wherby people are often afraid to ask for help.
Some regrettable sense of shame holds us back, an inadequacy.

We do not want to experience in fact we AVOID that frightening feeling of being embarrassed.

Being embarrassed or appearing foolish, condemnig oneself about not being as smart as others who appear to have their "lot" together.

In times past most folks struggled on with the adopted attitude that

“This is how it is & thus it must stay". Grin and bare it.

“I made my bed now I must lie in it” attitude.

Lie in "it" that is, until the pain & discomfort becomes overbearing.

Do not let this happen to you, your family, your friends or your employees.  

Should you do so you and they will experience "BURN OUT". 

That’s when we feel we may break, collapse, leave the relationship, run away, get drunk or suicide.

You do not have to "Suck this Up" any more.

Help is available.

Are Constant arguments over the smallest matters an issue in your relationship?

When these old outdated beliefs and self poisoning attitudes  begin to ruin and take over people’s lives and the lives of those around them nothing could ever be further from the truth.

We no longer have to, nor should we, tolerate or allow our families, friends or fellow employees be exposed to such emotional discomfort when Supervision and Counselling therapy is so easy to access, affordable, readily available and above all Confidential and so Private.

We know that PRIVACY is a big winner because over 80% of internet enquiries are for Pornography which is predominately hidden from all and secretly viewed in private to avoid exposure and obvious embarrasment.
Too often pornography is depicting violence towards women and dangerously misleading behaviour for the introduction and expectations of adolesents to healthy wholsome sex.


Our parents had a vested interest in the practical toilet training of us all.
However very few families or individuals have had the deliberate encouragemnet and developmental benefit of emotional liberating training.
To the contrary this is one of the earliest aspects of dysfunctional conditioning which for the benefit of the lesson we refer to as the modelled establishment of emotional constipation.
In a methaphorical sense this is hanging onto old hurts and emotional wounds which we should have passed.
Unfortunately many individuals do not understand or appreciare that what they have adopted as "normal" behaviour is not what they or their partner consuder as normal because of their environmental and or cultural exposure.

As against Breaking Down

Fortunately it is here where we are offered the opportunity to "Break Through". Yes breaking through, by letting go our early life dysfunctional conditioning which has left us in a form of stagnating limbo, the consequence of ignoring our true self.

This is where we previously left ourself holding onto and suppressing issues with the well known & identified habitual avoidance behaviours. 
Left unattended over time, we effectively poison ourselves with retained, toxic emotional energies which accumulate, becoming so pervasive that we can no longer deny their discomfort or their destructive health impact within our being. Eventually we feel 'crook'.

We now arrive at that place where we understand that Professional Supervision and Counselling can and does assist with the provision of new ways and methods to manage old conditioned attitudes & habits to assist in the self management and release of the dis-ease before it evolves and cellularly mutates into body decaying DIS-EASE.


Our Online Supervision and Counselling is confidential and provides you a totally private opportunity for open discussion and disclosure.
As mentioned previously with the above reference to the SMH article by Maree Crabbe about the study into pornography, our Supervision & Counselling is a very personal and private matter and you maybe assured to your safety and absolute confidential privacy.

In time, possibly after a couple of sessions you, the patient may or will progressively develop confidence to disclose those private, occasionally extremely personal matters.

Emotional healing happens through the "expressed passing" of these feelings with the associated release of the emotional energy in a safe supported, supervised environment, reinforced by the additional safety of your own home, without fear of condemnation or criticism.

Such personal liberation is of it's self an amazing and powerful experience.
A life changing personal experience, occurs in this letting go to experience the joy filling release like never before.

At this point, you the patient feel as though you are actually being heard, appreciated and understood for the very first time.

It is here in this "opening up", released by the expressed disclosures from the actual “letting go”, where real healing happens.


There is another significant emotional constraint for all of us lying in the “family environs” and households in which we were raised.

Too often raised in violent and or dysfunctional to even manupilative environments where happiness may have been all about looking forward to the day when you could leave home.

Regularly we hear patients declare that they simply cannot criticise their parents.
Patients express their ingrained sense of shame and guilt. They tell us they just must not nor cannot, speak about or be disloyal to their parents, even though theparents were not there for them as children, were cruel manipulators, or violent drunks who assaulted them, other siblings and their Mother.

Even so, given all of that, some now unconscious supressed part of the child lingers in wanting acceptance, holding a deep longing ungratified sense for their Father or Mother love and acceptance.
That endless aching need which Bette Midler made famous with her version of "The Rose".

It seems that  parents who were emotional unavailable have never modelled emotional sensitivity, that absence created this every present sense of wanting.
That endless aching need. Setting up the love hate psychosis which too often traps patients in virtually identical dysfunctional relationships, the actual practice of which they unintentionally inherited from their family of origin.
Here we find the potential recurrence of the Electra and Oedipus complex conditioning which is not set in stone, but interesting neverthe less.

During those unpleasant years the psyche’s ability to resist and tolerate emotional discomfort was reinforced to an entirely dysfunctional degree of "unconsciousness".
Set into a place where relief was sought by numbing the emotional chasm with avoidance behaviour practices such as extremes of alcohol, gambling, drugs, pornography, sexual obsession, food, church, retail therapy or many other avenues of avoidance.

It is during these very early days mostly before the age of seven (7) when the basic personality characteristic and habits where ingrained, where our attitudes for life’s rights & wrongs were conditioned into us.

From this conditioning we grew to accept, deny or reject certain expressions of behaviour as being acceptable or not acceptable.


By accessing this online facility for Supervision and or Counselling  and working with committed professional Supervisors & Counsellors from the privacy of your  own home computer, mobile phone or work office you maybe assured and guaranteed of support.  


Work place expectations and public demand ensure that the service provider 'at the coal face' is caught as the meat in the sandwich between supply of the service and public demand for its delivery. Constant daily performance pressure is upon these people who also experience other difficulties in daily life and family living, which must be taken into consideration and supported.


This area of work where “the rubber meets the road” is testing for all concerned and for this reason employers must be aware of the essential need to supply Supervision to their staff to avoid inevitable conditions of “BURN OUT” by providing regular Supervision to managers,  staff and employees.

In this stress filled time of financial constraints all people across the entire world and the work force are feeling extra pressure.

On Line Supervision and Counselling.

Guaranteed Assurance of Ethical Service.
Industry compliance, confidentiality, protection and best practice is assured for Supervisees and Counsellors utilising our services under the Australian Counselling Association Code of Ethics.

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